Decisions, Cause of Your Hatred

By Benjamin Pulle Niriwa, 22.11.2021

One of the valuable friends of life that cannot be ignored is “Decision-Making” (Molina-Mula & Gallo-Estrada, 2020). The only one who does not make decisions in life is one without plans; even dead human beings still make decisions. However, whatever decision one makes in life (whether good or bad) could affect others, the reason why you could be “hated” (Shults et al., 2019).

The jobs (Sabetian et al., 2021) that most people do is as a result of the initial decisions that they made about which course to do or what technical training to have. Before people get married (Osei-Tutu et al., 2018), they might have met many people who could have been possible partners; but they have to make a decision as to who to settle down with. This is a decision that could break some people hearts and some could hate you for that. 

 Figure. Decision: Hate the Situations of the Decision, Not the Human Being

The decision that one makes could either make one successful or a failure; for any of them there would be those who hate the person instead of the situation. So, as an actor, Mr. Ibu, rightly said in a film entitled “Mr. Ibu”, no matter what you do, people will always have problem with you; except you are dead. To be peaceful in life, you must learn to ignore certain irrelevant comments that others pass about you. Hate the situation or decision: never hate the human being (Fig. Decision). 

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