DON’T HATE RECIPROCALLY, LOVE!

By Benjamin Pulle Niriwa, 15.11.2021

Most hatreds on earth are driven from the fact that most people still see this life as a competition (Niriwa, 2021), instead of as a journey or healthy competition! But the realities of life is that the fastest “horse” (Gacem et al., 2021; Sharman & Wilson, 2015; Self et al., 2012) can never do the work of a slowly moving “donkey” (Gacem et al., 2021; Pinto et al., 2021). Comparing yourself with others and asking why others have what you did not have is the beginning of hatred. Just as all fingers can never be the same on earth (Oki, 2018), so is life!

When others hate you do not reciprocate (Fig. Love), it shows that there is something that you have that they lack and thereby expose it by hating you. Rather love them for helping you to self-assess your life to identify what you have that make them hate you (either good or bad). Whatever you self-assess your life to identify and solve, whether good or bad, makes you a better and peaceful person than before.

In most cases we hear people pass comments, like: “I was better than this or that guy in class” but being better than someone does not means that your family is also better than his/hers. Some people by nature are already born with “silver spoons in their mouths” (Wikipedia., 2021; Oppong, 2008): but in your case you are rather the one who is laying the foundation of your family. Do you expect to just start preparation and be like the one who is born into a wealthy family? No! But that does not means that you cannot get there, you can get there with preparation but not through hatred or “Hate” (Shults et al., 2019).

You can be better than someone but that on itself is not what puts food on your table, it is what you do with what makes you better. It would be helpful for everyone to know that if you are better than someone it does not stop God from blessing that person. It does not also means that because you think that you are better than him or her and he/she is successful in life than you, then you should hate him/her.

Christmas is not celebrated by those who hate, it is a season of love celebrated by those who love! Deal with hatred to love for life! Thank you for Reading!

 Figure Love: Don't Hate Reciprocally

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