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Wednesday, December 25, 2019
Sunday, July 7, 2019
PREPARATION IS PEACE
PREPARATION IS PEACE: ARE WE PREPARED FOR RELIGIOUS TOLERANCE?
Tolerance Is Peace: Religious Tolerance Makes God Smiles
The best form of preparation for religious tolerance is to say a big no
to any action/inaction (Russett,
1974; Zelizer, 2017; Norris, 2016) that seems to
discriminate (Jordanova et al., 2015; Ikizler & Szymanski, 2018) against any religious belief or faith. The
Beautifully Peaceful Relationship Between Ghanaian Christians and Muslims (Abdul-Hamid, 2011) Makes
God Smiles; we must protect it. Ghana is one of the countries around the globe
where there is an admirable and peaceful relationship between Christians and
Muslims. Unfortunately, my continued observation of our beautiful relationship
has exposed some possible threats. The recent one was a unique wedding between
a converted Christian lady and a Muslim Man at Techire in the Bono Region of
Ghana, West Africa. The wedding (Pic 1) took place on the 30th of
June 2019.
The
chief Imam of the region started the ceremony on an excellent note by
acknowledging this beautiful relationship using the program as an example. He
however, unfortunately, diverted from this beautiful acknowledgement in his
preaching which I suspect was not intentional. Though I am not accusing him; I
see such preachings at unique and beautiful programs like that as possible
threats to this beautiful, peaceful, and lovely relationship which we are all
proud of. In a gathering like that bringing both faiths together peacefully,
especially in a situation where one of the faiths is losing a member to the
other, we must use speeches/preachings that unite us or console the losing
side, but not that which add more pain. The lady is a Christian who has
followed her heart beat to convert into Islam. The Imam himself acknowledged it
nicely by saying that the family did very well in supporting her decision, as
they did not give her any difficulty.
It
is an open secret that Muslims are the ones who are mostly against their
members decision to convert and marry a Christian or any other faith. I am a
victim of that myself. I met a lovely Muslim lady who was deeply in love with
me and was ready to marry me, but her father was against it. The negative mentalities
that we create in the minds of believers of “All great religions”, like Christianity
and Islam, are what normally lead to the fight for religious supremacy, but “All
religions were more or less true” (Singh, 2004) . I do not think that
the family of the lady, and the Christians in general, were happy for losing
their member to another faith. The family and the Christian community have made
a painful and a difficult decision just to support her feelings and happiness
as well as promote peace between Christians and Muslims.
Disrespecting
her feeling/happiness or fighting against her because of that could result into
a situation that no one can predict the end. Love or relationships breakup is
the major reason why others commit suicide (News., 2011; O’Sullivan,
2017; Eran., 2018) .
I am sure that the family and the church has critically thought about that
before making their decision to support her. Even before the wedding, the
church members of the family came around to pray for them in order to console
them. Almost all of them left immediately after that! This alone reveals the
psychological or emotional pains that they were going through. So, in such a
situation, I expected that anyone who preaches or gives a speech should choose
a topic that would, at least, console the family and Christians who, though
after losing their member, still came around to support the beautiful and uniquely
unique program.
Unfortunately,
the Imam chose a topic that seems to mock Christianity and rather add more
pains to the already existing one. The topic was about Christians believe that
Jesus Christ is the Son of God; and that some even believe that Jesus himself
is God. A topic that both faiths always disagree should not have been chosen
for such a beautiful and unique program. The Chief Imam’s argument was that:
“God is too big and powerful, He never sleeps”! To say that God became a human
being to live inside the tiny womb of a woman is tantamount to limiting His powers!
He wondered: “How can God who is bigger than even the whole world, be limited
to just the tiny womb of a woman!”. He followed that with another question: “We
all know that God does not sleep but we humans sleep; if you are saying that He
became a human being and lived in the womb of a woman, are you now saying that
God sleeps?”.
At
this time the whole wedding ground was as silent as a cemetery! There were
three (3) Rev. Sisters who also attended the program. When I turned around to
look into their faces, I could see that their moods have suddenly changed when
he was asking those rhetorical questions. I am sure that they would have loved
to give answers to those rhetorical questions to defend their faiths but they
stopped for the sake of the beautiful and unique program. I do not support
either Christians or Muslims using such speeches in any program that brings
both faiths together like this one.
This behavior is noted not only amongst Muslims but
Christians too! Ioffe, (2016) has lamented a behavior at a dinner where Laura Ingraham
conversing with colleague guests, said: “Raise your hands if you think Islam is
a death cult”. She added; most of them raised their hands and in a political
manner, each of them decided to explain to her that “unlike Islam, Christianity
is inherently a religion of love”. Like that diner which was turned into a
religious political ground, this uniquely peaceful and loving wedding ceremony
was also religiously politicized. So, in short, the Imam gave a discriminative
speech in that unique program that brought members of both faiths together
peacefully. Such discriminative speeches must not be used during such important
and uniquely unique gatherings, they are threats to PEACE.
To
conclude, all religions on earth are supposed to be “Inherently respectful”;
tolerating each other faith (Singh, 2004) . We can only prove
this respect and tolerance during such uniquely unique gatherings that bring
people of different faiths together. I am from a uniquely unique and democratic
family; apart from me and my parents who are Catholics, my siblings are in
different Christian denominations and the rest of the family belong to
different faiths. On the maternal side too, apart from two of my uncles and
their children, the rests are all Muslims; but since childhood I have never
heard of any violence amongst any of us. We still respect ourselves and
tolerate each other’s faith. Whatever I am saying here is not intended to support
any religious supremacy; but to help cement the beautiful relationship between not
only different faiths in Ghana (especially Christianity and Islam) but around
the globe. Thank you for Reading, share your comments.
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A., S., & Szymanski, D., M. (2018). Discrimination, religious and cultural
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Tuesday, January 1, 2019
SELF-ASSESSMENT IS PEACE
Your Daily Self-Assessment for Peace
To
live a peaceful life on earth, then self-assessment should be part of daily
activities. If we are able to do any one of these in the peace calendar below
daily, they we are contributing to peace.
How to Self-Assess Sabotage: The
Silent Killer
The
oxford dictionaries define sabotage as: “Deliberately destroy, damage, or
obstruct (something), especially for political or military advantage”.
Everyone
can sabotage you in life to make life very bitter for him/her! It not
surprising to find coworkers, friends, and, shamefully, family members trying
to pull us down (Adam, 2013). Saboteurs are dangerous because they don’t open
up that they are sabotaging their victim(s) and it is because of the legal
implications associated with sabotage. This makes it very difficult to identify
them. Meanwhile, Novi Survey Report on 12th September, 2018 revealed
that: “An enemy that is visible is far easier to fight than one that hides
well”. We can be sabotaged by others in various divers’ ways in multifarious
facets of our lives such as in our relationships, works/businesses, politics, religion,
and so on (Adam, 2013).
He
added that “When we understand what’s going on around us, it makes it easier to
call it what it is and move on” with our lives. So, it is better to self-assess
your family, work, political party, country, religion, race/tribe, profession
and so on for any possible form of sabotage/apartheid. This will help you to
also self-assess how to deal with it or accept it as it is and move on with
your life. It can be undoubtedly painful to realized that the one that you love
most, like; your friend(s)/co-worker(s), wife/girlfriend, husband/boyfriend,
parent/sibling(s), your church member(s) (either internal/external), party
member(s) (either internal/external), school mate(s), race/tribe mate(s) is/are
the one(s) sabotaging you (Adm, 2013). The best way to understand/self-assess
apartheid/discrimination and sabotage is to understand how human beings behave
and accept it as it is instead of fighting it; this will help us to understand
why people behave the way they behave (Adm, 2013). To Be Continued.
Thanks
for Reading. Good Night!
Tuesday, December 25, 2018
SELF-ASSESSMENT IS PEACE
Self-Assessing the Purpose of Your Life: How Do I Live A Purposeful Life?
When
we are talking about living a purposeful life, we are not talking about wealth!
Jesus was not from a rich family, but right from the beginning he knew what he
was on earth to do. At a very early age of twelve (12), he was found in the
God’s temple (Luke 2: 42-49).
One
of the secretes to living a peaceful life is never to consider yourself as
hopeless or wasteful! What can help you to avoid this cancerous thought is using
self-assessment to assess what your purpose in life is. Jesus at the age of 12
knows that his purpose in life was to do the work of God. So, when his parents
found him in the temple and were complaining, he reminded them of his purpose on earth that;
don’t they know that he has to do the work of his father? (Luke 2:49). A
purpose in life helps us not to only remain focus but to also avoid seeing life as a
competition. What then is a purpose? Bronk et
al., (2009) define purpose as an
aim that acts in the interest of the “larger world, on behalf of others or in pursuit
of a larger cause”. This clearly distinguished it as a more globally oriented aim.
As
seen in the image, a guest gave hopelessness as the reason of feeling like committing
suicide (Hsu, 2013);
people who have hopes will not be ready to kill themselves and others in suicide,
thinking that they will go to heaven through that. Exodus 20:13 says: “Thou
shalt not kill”. Surah 5:32 of the Holy Quran also says that, “If anyone has
killed one person it is as if he had killed the whole mankind” (Arbil, 2007). This means that both Holy
Books are against murder! If you kill in the name of God, you need to seriously
self-assess your religious life to find out where your spirit comes from. Use
self-assessment and prayer to identify your purpose in life, this will give you
hope and peace to live peacefully with others too.
“Life
without purpose is meaningless” (Kowalski, 2018). Living life without a purpose
is hopeless; and hopelessness is an obstacle to personal, family, national and
internal peace. There are theoretical and empirical literatures that suggest
that, “Having a purpose in life contributes to optimal human development (Bronk et al.,
2009; Bronk, 2005). Living a purposeful life is very important particularly
amongst the youth as it contributes to “resilient” youths (Benard, 1991).
Benson, (2006) revealed that purpose creates a developmental mind set for
“Positive youth development”, whilst Shek, (1993) identified that “Youth with
purpose are psychologically healthier than their peers”. The findings by these
researchers were found to persist till adulthood as confirmed in studies by Crumbaugh
& Maholick, (1967) and Kish & Moddy, (1989).
If
youths who have purpose are healthier psychologically (Shek, 1993), then once
you identify the purpose of your life; you are indirectly helping to achieve the
United Nations’ Sustainable Development Goals (UN SDGs). The United Nations
(UN) Sustainable Development Goal Three (SDGs 3) says that; “Ensure healthy
lives and promote well-being for all at all ages” (UN SDGs, 2016). Healthy people
are happier and economically sound as confirmed by the saying from Carlson, (2016)
that, “your health is your wealth”. Goal 8 of the UN SDGs talks about “Decent
work and economic growth”, this will not be possible when the youth which are
the majority are not healthy because they have no purpose in life and it has
let to hopelessness. Bawumia, (2017), noticed that the 2015 SDG agenda
fundamentally has a transformative element that combines sustainability,
inclusiveness and financing for the first time. He revealed that commitment to
the SDGs in Ghana will only be possible when there is a collective effort. These
sustainability, inclusiveness and financing would be mere mockery if the
citizenries are not healthy and peaceful.
Here
are some of the ways that we can identify our purpose in life:
Identify
Your Personal values –
What are your values in life? In most cases, your personal values are directly
linked to your purpose in life. Salva, (2017) on his blog said that “Purpose
Leads to Hope and Hope Leads to Purpose”. So, identifying your values can help
you in identifying what your purpose in life is.
Know
Your Interest areas in life –
Doing the things that we like on earth can help us identify our purpose in
life. What we like and do are in most cases in line with what our purpose in life
is. Forbes, (2016) in an article entitled: “Six Ways To Discover Your Life Purpose”
revealed that you can identify the purpose of your life by following the
hobbies of your life. Sometimes the things that we like doing can themselves
serve as our purpose in life.
Value Education, Skills or talents –
Education is undeniably very important in every aspects of humans’ lives. The
best form of self-assessment is education and through education, one can
identify his/her purpose in life. We can identify our skills and talents using
education and the skills/talents that we have are mostly linked to our purpose
in life. Doing our homework can help us identify our purpose (Forbes, 2016).
This home work is talking not only about homework giving to us by our teachers
or lecturers in school, but it is also talking about scanning through our lives
(self-assessment). This can be done in so many ways by studying our
environment.
Fear of God and Use
Your Conscience – Live life to please
God. The fear of God is the beginning of conscience; do things that will not
let your conscience be judging later. Proverbs 9:10 says that we get wisdom when
we fear God and this will also give us knowledge that we look for in life. When
you truly fear God, your purpose in life will naturally always be living your
life to please Him. This will give you peaceful mind and also help to live
peacefully with others since you would not like to hurt your neighbor which
goes against the greatest commandment that: “Thou shalt love thy neighbor as
thyself” (Matthew 22:39).
Assess Your relation with others
– Relationship with people like friends, family members, co-workers,
co-tenants, church members, party members and so on can let you feel valueless
in life and loose your main purpose. These same relationships can also let you
feel valuable, accepted, and dignified; they can help you to identify your
talents/skills and purpose in life.
Be Health Conscious
– Sickness can make you feel hopeless, wasteful and loss your sense of purpose
in life. To identify and live a purposeful life, develop health seeking
behaviors and visit your health facility regularly to screen yourself for
possible ailments even if you are not sick.
These are just some examples of living a purposeful
and hopeful life that can give you happiness, and peace. Do not just celebrate Christmas
because others are celebrating, have a personal purpose. Christmas (the birth
of Jesus) should not be seen as a celebration by only Christians, but the whole
mankind. Jesus was not borne for only the Jews, but the whole mankind: Mohammed
was not borne for only Muslims but the whole mankind. None of the Prophets in
the Holy Books was borne for only some specific groups of people, but the whole
mankind. The celebration of Jesus or Mohammed should always be seen as a period
of unification but NOT division. This is one of the reasons why I am always
proud to be a Ghanaian. Ghanaians do not discriminate during the celebration of
any of these religious leaders – this should be the purpose for the whole
world. I wish you all Merry Christmas and Happy Prosperous New Year in
Advanced. Thank you for Reading!
Some References
Arbil,
M. (2007). Faith and spirituality: Ten commandments from the Bible and Quran.
Retrieved from
https://www.islamicity.org/3096/ten-commandments-from-the-bible-and-quran/ on
23rd December 2018 at 5:05PM.
Bawumia,
M. (2017). Key Notes Address Delivered by H. E. Dr. Mahamudu Bawumia,
Vice-President of the Republic of Ghana On the Occasion of Ghana’s Roadmap
Forum. Retrieved form https://www.modernghana.com/news/766847/key-note-address-...
on 29th March 2018 at 9:32AM.
Benard,
B.
(1991). Fostering resiliency in kids: Protective factors in the family, school
and community. San Francisco: Far West Laboratory for Educational Research and
development.
Benson,
P.,
L. (2006). All kids are our kids: What communities must do to raise caring and
responsible children and adolescents (2nd ed.). San Francisco:
Jossey Bass.
Bronk,
K.,
C. (2005). Portraits of purpose: A study examining the ways a sense of purpose
contributes to positive youth development. Dissertation
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Bronk,
K.,
C., Lapsley, D., K., Talib, T., L., Finch, H., & Hill, P., L. (2009). Purpose,
hope, and life satisfaction in three age groups. The Journal of Positive Psychology. 1-26. doi: 10.1080/17439760903271439.
Monday, December 17, 2018
SELF-ASSESSMENT IS PEACE
HOW TO SELF-ASSESS YOUR LIFE
Life
is like mathematics: once you fail to calculate well, you will get a wrong
answer (Unknown Author, 2012); therefore, you will fail. See self-assessment
like mathematics where a calculator is
used to calculate for the right answer for you to succeed in
life. To be able to use some calculators (scientific calculators) you must
first of all learn how to use them. Therefore, there are some skills or ways
that you need to know in order to do effective self-assessment. During
self-assessment, be frank with yourself, be ready to accept any mistake or
outcome that you might have identified. See self-assessment as an eraser that
you can use to erase/correct certain mistakes in your life. You can also see it
as a measuring jar/cylinder that you can use to measure your achievements in
life; this will help you appreciate what God has done for you and glorify Him. To have an effective self-assessment, you must
first identify your status in life, where
you want to be from there, and the area(s) that you want to assess
yourself.
I
have ever posted about loneliness on my Facebook's wall, group, and page (11.06.14,
01.05.18). Spending time alone is very important during self-assessment! Loneliness,
though, generally is known as a bad thing; you can never have a perfect
self-assessment without sitting down alone somewhere to have a reflection of
your life. “With deep reflection you will see why you are going through the
situation or challenges” (Joshua, 2018).
But, Ghulam et al., (2017)
found out that: "Self-esteem and loneliness have significant
relationship", confirming that loneliness is bad.
Fathiannisa
Hadi, (2017) had a different opinion of loneliness. In her answer: "Trying
to help with my experience" to a question by quora.com, "Is loneliness
bad for your life?"; she said: “I feel free to express myself when I’m
alone". She added: "I love loneliness". Loneliness indeed is not
good but sometimes we need to spent time alone to reflect on our lives for what
to do next or correct.
There
are three types of loneliness when we are talking about the “normal” types of
loneliness amongst the general public (Peplau & Perlman, 1981): we have a
loneliness where the person has difficulty keeping social relationship with
others; there is also a subjective form of loneliness that is not necessarily about
the person objectively isolating him/herself, and people can be alone without
feeling (being) lonely; we have an unpleasant and distressful loneliness. I am
talking about the second type of loneliness where people can be alone without
feeling lonely. One of the ways you can be alone without feeling lonely is to
make yourself busy trying to self-assess your life.
Moustakas, (1961), in “Forms and Measurement of Loneliness in Social
Psychology of Loneliness” confirmed that existential loneliness is
inevitable in human’s experience and a time of self-confrontation that provides
opportunity for self-growth. He added that, loneliness can lead to pain,
likewise; it results in triumphant creativity. This creativity is as a result
of self-assessment! We may need some people to help us during self-assessment, but
it’s necessary to find a quiet place somewhere to sit down alone and assess
ourselves before meeting them. Self-assessment is PEACE, as it is left with
just some few days for the year to end; you should never forget to self-assess
your life. Because of the importance of self-assessment, it can be done at
every moment of one’s life, especially; at the beginning, middle, and end of
the year.
Sit
down and take a critical look at your current situation(s) in life! What are
the good and bad moments in your past and present? What did you do to get those
good moments: what did you do and had those bad moments? Now, think of what you
should have done better and learn from your bad moments. This will help you to
identify your challenges and opportunities (Moustakas, 1961) in life. “Your challenges are your school of
lessons. When challenges are not well managed, they will be thrown back and
reappear as life time challenges” (Joshua, 2018). In whatever area you assess
yourself, identify and deal with your challenges to help build you up for
opportunities (Moustakas, 1961) in
your life. 2018 might have been
a bad or good year, but how can you make 2019 a good or a better year? So,
during self-assessment; reflect on your previous and current situations in life
and how you can turn things around for a better, peaceful and happier life.
The
following are some of the ways that you can self-assessed yourself.
v Spend
time alone to reflect on your Personal Life in General,
Ø Find
out your Interest Areas in Life;
ü What
do you do often during your leisure/free time (What do you do for fun)?
ü What
are your likes and dislikes?
v Find
out How Your Environment Affects Your Life.
Ø Your
Family Life,
Ø Your
Educational Life,
Ø Your
Working Environment,
Ø Your
Political Environment,
Ø Your
Religious Environment,
Ø Your
Relationship with Others, and so on.
v Identify
and Self-Assess Your Skills or Talents,
v Identify
Your Main Purpose in Life and How to Fulfill It.
They
are grouped under three major headings as:
v External
Environment,
v Internal
Environment, and
v Dreams.
A
life without a purpose is a hopeless life; and hopelessness is a threat to
personal, family, national and internal peace. Do not ask me why? I don’t want
to say that if one values his/her life and that of others, he/she would not commit
suicide bombing. Those who are convincing you to do suicide bombing, why can’t
one of them volunteer since they also want to go to heaven? Only hopeless
people will think that killing themselves to kill others will send them to
heaven and it is better! Use self-assessment and prayer to identify your
purpose in life, this will give you hope and peace.
Thank you for Reading!
Thank you for Reading!
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Psychology. 6(2):
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Prentice-Hall.
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Unknown
Author. (23.02.2012). “Life is like mathematics. We all want to have the right
answer at the end but for that we need to know what to add, where to subtract,
how to multiply and when to divide.”. Retrieved from
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SELF-ASSESSMENT IS PEACE
SAYING SORRY IS SELF-ASSESSMENT AND IT IS PEACE
Before
we continue today, I am sorry for not being active for the past periods. I was sick
and my mother too was sick. Immediately after recovery, I went to work on my
project for final submission. From the middle of January to June 2019, if I am
favored to be counted amongst the living, I may be posting twice every month; I
am currently doing something that equally demands time sacrifice.
Assess yourself and say sorry to any one you might have wronged knowing or unknowingly. Sorry is just a simple single short word but it can heal so many wounds and build many relationships. Thank you!
Tuesday, November 6, 2018
SELF-ASSESSMENT IS PEACE
What Is the Importance of Self-Assessment?
Tracing the Importance of Self-Assessment from Philosophers
Knowing
the importance of Self-Assessment using religion and politics as examples, let
us now trace the importance Self-Assessment from Philosophers. In one of my
posts on Facebook (14th February, 2016), I posted: “Plato who was
one of the Socratic period philosophers divided reality into two - the World of
Things and the World of Ideas. He said, "The idea of anything is the
beginning of knowledge and for doing things as what they are". He quoted Heraclitus
(theory of change) on many occasions saying, "Things keep on
changing" a statement found in Heraclitus theory of change”. The sayings
of most of these philosophers many years ago are still very applicable in our
modern-day democratic life. The mere fact that things keep on changing is
enough reason for us as humans to also keep on assessing our lives regularly in
order to keep up with our changing world. There are many ideas that we can
identify if only we can spend just some few minutes to self-assess ourselves
and the life that we are living.
These
philosophers coined most of their wise sayings by assessing themselves and the
environment around them. If the idea of anything is the beginning of knowledge
and for doing what we do, then, how do we get that idea? Socrates sees philosophy
(the love of wisdom) as the most valuable thing that we must all try to have;
and he used himself as an example trying to acquire wisdom using questions and
logical arguments, assessing himself and others (by examining), and thinking
(reflecting). Asking of questions or thinking are all forms of
self-assessments. Assessing (examining) his own life has helped others who were
also able to self-assessed (self-examined) their lives. Socrates said: “The
life which is unexamined is not worth living” thereby stressing the importance of
self-assessment (Spivey & Squire, 2011; Johnson, 2011; Famakinwa, 2012).
Socrates
was indirectly telling us to always assess or critically reflect on our actions
and inactions. There are certain times in our lives where we were supposed to ‘act’
but we did not act, or ‘not to act’ but we acted (Follow me for some previous
posts on actions on Facebook; example, 22.09.14, 2.10.16). Though the word,
“unexamined” is a past tense; Socrates is not telling us to only examine our
past, but the present too. If we are assessing our pasts; then his saying agrees
with Aristotle that we do not have any experience (Bedu-Addo, 1983) at birth
but acquire that as we grow up. Our experiences from our actions and inactions
can help reshape our lives and that of others helping to promote a peaceful
environment for all. It is only through self-assessment that we can identify
our mistakes and correct them: without that we keep repeating the same
mistake(s).
The Holy Books can give us both earthly and eternal
PEACE, Titus 3:2 urges us: “To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but
gentle, shewing all meekness unto all men”. This can be likened to the Greatest
Commandment, LOVE, (Matthew 22: 38-39). If you really love God, you will love
your neighbor who is the exact image of God (Gen 1:26) and you will not speak
evil of him/her nor do anything that will to hurt him/her. If this happened
there will be peace on earth and people can also have the chance to repent
before death (eternal peace). Violence gives no one a chance to repent! We can
do our daily self-assessment using these Holy Books and they are full of
philosophical sayings. “There are 100 Bible verses about philosophy”
(openbible.info.). Example; Romans 6:23 which says, “For the wages of sin is
death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord” is a
divine philosophical saying. From the 27books, epistles and
letters in the New Testament, 13 of them (excluding Hebrews) are written by the
Apostle Paul using words, ideas and Greek philosophy used by philosophers like
Plato, Socrates, Seneca and many other intellectuals at that time (biblethingsinbibleways.wordpress.com). He did that
so that the people can better understand him in his teachings.
An
article by Vidyarthi, 1995: “The philosophy of colours in the Holy Quran”, other
publications by Ahmat et al., 2016: “The philosophy of divine engineering and
its technological application in Quran” and Ahmad 2013: “The philosophy of the
teachings of Islam” means that there are also philosophical sayings in the Holy
Quran too. These philosophical approaches have no effects on the divinity of
these Holy Books.
Please, kindly follow me on Facebook for most of my previous postings. They can help you to understand and draw a link from my previous and current posts. Thank you for Reading.
Some References
Some References
Ahmad, H., M.,
G. (2013). The philosophy of the teachings of Islam. Revised Edition. Islam International Publications Ltd. ISBN
978-1-84880-055-7.
Ahmat,
N., Ahmad, N., A., & Omar, S., R. (2016). The Philosophy of “Divine”
Engineering and Its Technological Application in Quran: Conference Paper –
September 2016. ResearchGates. 1-28.
Bedu-Addo,
J., T. (1983). Sense-Experience and Recollection in Plato's Meno. The Johns
Hopkins University Press. The American
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228-248. DOI: 10.2307/294538, https://www.jstor.org/stable/294538.
Bible things in Bible ways: Paul and his use of Greek Philosophy. Retrieved on 06.11.18 at
12:45PM from https://biblethingsinbibleways.wordpress.com/2013/07/14/paul-and-his-use-of-greek-philosophy/.
Famakinwa, J.,
O. (2012). Is the Unexamined Life Worth Living or Not? The Royal Institute of philosophy. 11(31): 97-103.
Johnson,
D., M. (2011). Socrates and Athens. Cambridge University Press. ISBN 052175487.
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The King
James Version: The Holy Bible Containing the Old and New Testaments. Translated
Out of the Original Tongues: and With the Former Translations Diligently
Compared and Revised, by His Majesty’s Special Command. Appointed to be read in
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